There are so many factors in our lives that we can’t control. But one thing we can control is our focus. Many relationships fail, not because of loss of love, but loss of focus.
- Is your focus on finding or becoming? The object of love is not someone to “complete you”. God tells us in Genesis “Two will become one.” not “Halves will become whole.”
- Is your focus on then or now? A lot of relationships are sabotaged by things that happened before the relationship began because it wasn’t dealt with.
- Is your focus on not or got? If you choose to magnify what you’ve lost, you will live in that loss.
- Is your focus on theirs or mine? We don’t fix people, God does. He’s asking for His job back!